(Interrelationship between sexual self esteem, sexual assertiveness and sexual satisfaction./
Why aren't we talking to our partners about sex?)
A- The importance of communicating about sex with your partner-
1- Talking to partner about sex enhances the emotional bond between the two.
2- The kind of desires may be reflected and understood for each other after the talk.
3- If there are some problems, they can be sought after.
4- There may even be a medical aspect that can be realised for the first time and the partner may be taken to medical professional/ doctor/ consultant for further action.
5- Specific requests regarding fulfilment of sexual desires can be expressed.
6- The frequency of sex and the allied aspects can be better understood.
7- The likes and dislikes can be understood.
8- Sexually transmitted infections can be prevented.
B- How can sexual communication in couples be improved?
1- There exists a feeling of shyness/ embarrassment/ hesitation. This must be eliminated.
2- The tendency that the spouses know much about sex is wrong. There must be a realisation that there is much to know and it should be known.
3- There is a personal failure/ drawback regarding fine communication and inability to express properly.
4- The sexual communication must include humour.
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