Question

George did not look forward to going to the staff meetings that his middle-manager boss convened once each week. He did not always feel this way about the meetings; in fact, up until 3 months earlier he rather enjoyed what he believed were productive and congenial gatherings. What made the difference was one change in the membership of this group of six supervisors: the addition of Charlie, who replaced a usually silent supervisor.

Unlike his predecessor, Charlie was anything but usually silent. In fact, it seemed as though Charlie had made it a point to become conversant with every section of their boss’s territory, and he almost always had something critical to say about the other supervisors’ weekly reports.

What bothered George most was Charlie’s approach to getting his issues or criticisms on the table. Charlie seemed to focus exclusively on problems and weaknesses. As if that in itself wasn’t bad enough, what George resented most was Charlie’s way of introducing a problem or concern in a way that ensured maximum embarrassment for whoever’s area he was commenting on. It was Charlie’s practice to openly drop his little bombshells in the staff meeting, where the supervisor whose area was in question first heard of a so-called problem or weakness at the same time the others learned of it.

It seemed to George that Charlie’s practice of blindsiding the others in the group was coldly calculated to make himself look better by making others look worse. And George found it even more frustrating to note that their boss did not seem to recognize what Charlie was doing.

Would you recommend that George start addressing this problem by taking it up one-on-one with their mutual middle-manager boss?

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I would recommend George to address this problem to middle manager who would hear the issues of both parties and also middle manager is the one who convened meetings so he is the authority to bring the issue. other supervisors in the staff meeting may be blindsided but middle manager boss would definitely know what charlie is doing in the meeting and trying to bring his issues and criticisms in the staff meeting and ignoring other's point of views.

the approach of this to take to middle manager boss would make sure that if anythings happens between the two then it is in open not either of the party can do false allegations in their discussion to solve their issues.