Question

Assignment1: Your Experience

This assignment will be about a big problem or crisis that you have experienced in your life. Describe the problem or crisis. What happened; include the circumstances that led up to the problem or crisis and any other contributing factors. Describe how you solved the problem. What were your choices? What did you do? Why did you decide on that choice? How did it turn out? What did you learn from this experience? What would you have done differently? Include references from class or some you discovered on your own.

Answer 1

Every person faces some problem in his/ her life. It can be because of many factors like environment, family problems, relationships or can be anything.

My life had some it can be said to as more of a psychology problem. It occurred during my growing teenage days. The factors that led to this was the lack of understanding between my mother and me. And also how she used to put all the blame on me even when i would have done nothing. Thus, the lack of trust between me and my parents made me to indulge in self- harming.

After some time my parents discovered that i have been indulging in this activities. Though they were angry and told me to stop doing it. I guess i remained the same.

Then when i was in my late teenage days then i had two choices either carry on with the self-harm or stop doing it and understand the perspective of my mother.

Thus, the latter was choosen as i didn't want to be weak mentally as it was not doing be anything good.

It turn out to be a best choice as when choosing the latter means giving a chance to improve my relationship with my mother. And when i looked out from her perspective it turned out it was her way of dealing with the problem.

The thing that I learned from this experience was although the teenage age is that where you tend to be very sensitive regarding your emotions thus, slight dissatisfaction can lead to create hate for the person.

You tend to put your perspective in every situation that worsen the situation but with my experience i learned that other perspective matters as much as yours.

I don't think I other than this could do something differently.